Hmmmm this is a hard one... no one has ever done anything to me that i have not forgiven... the only thing anyone would have to do to me would be to hurt my kids, family for me not to forgive..and no one has done that.... so this is very hard...
i could still be upset with the ex wife.... but im not, i have forgiven her... had she not done what she did, i wouldn't have my 2 boys.
I could still be upset with my ex best friend who took my wife...but see above.
I could still be upset with another ex best friend called Gabe, but had he not done what he did, i would still be trusting and giving with friends (im trusting and giving with family, but with friends i am not ) he was unemployed and i had a very good job, i had a lot of $$$ so id pay his rent, his bowling, whenever wed go out id shout him because he had nothing...one day the opposite happened, he fell into 40k and i had debt collectors after me, i asked him for 500, he lent them to me, but the next week he phoned me and abused me and demanded his money, he said hed break my kneecaps, i challenged him we had a huge fight, and we parted ways. Money cost me a friend, so now i do not lend friends money ever.... but i forgave him a long time ago.
I could be mad with my cousin, he got married and he dissed my family and now doesn't talk to them at all, my parents took him in when he just arrived here, looked after him, fed him, etc etc then he got married, and he listened to his wife and now he doesn't talk to the family at all, not my family not his parents, i forgave him because i did the same thing (i listened to my then wife, and screwed up), one day he will need us, whether i help him or not is up for debate (i probably will he is family after all) but i forgave him.
as you can see, im pretty forgiving.... so really there isn't much to write on this topic.... no one has done the "unforgivable" to me yet, and i hope no one ever does.
farewell :)
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